Aaran Solh
Life and Relationship Coach &
Founder of Alchemy: Forging Connection
~ For Individuals: coaching and deep healing work to release unconscious expectations and fears, cultivate self-love and boundaries, and align your life and work with authenticity and courage as your guiding forces.
~ For Couples: Embody the feeling of seeing each other through the lens of presence and acceptance - letting go of expectations while learning to receive the magical love you are being offered.
Read more about the program:
Relationship Coaching for Couples
Turn Conflict into Intimacy and Build Compatibility and Unconditional Love
Every couple longs for a love that feels safe, exciting, and alive. Conscious Relationship is about remembering how to live, love, and relate from the wisdom already built into you—your intuition, your nervous system, and your deeper knowing. To find out what is possible when love is guided by presence rather than fear.
In our work together, we create a space where both partners can examine fear of intimacy, exposure, or betrayal—and the unconscious expectations that keep love at arm’s length.
Together, you’ll learn loving boundaries and how to make clear, respectful requests for change without resorting to pressure, threats, or passive aggression.
Relationships are the greatest source of fulfillment, fun, and joy. Yet they are also a place of deep growth and reflection. Most of us were not given the tools needed to navigate the deep intimacy and challenges it brings. Seeking support often gives you the tools you need to allow love to flow into the practical realities, emotional differences, and conflicts you may be navigating.
Instead of punishment and criticism (which most of us unconsciously use when in conflict), you'll learn to use positive reinforcement, appreciation, shared ritual, and consistent practice to help new behaviors take root. As blame gives way to compassionate accountability and you begin to see the unconscious patterns shaping your needs, behaviors, and desires, your relationship becomes a channel for growth, purpose, and shared service to each other and to the world. As you learn to walk at each other's pace, talk openly about fears, desires, and the unknown, you'll find greater and greater emotional and physical intimacy unfolding in your connection.
Relationship trauma (such as abuse or abandonment) or sexual trauma can be especially difficult to navigate as a couple. The pathway to healing is in the extra care and slowness you are able to offer each other. I have personally coped with childhood sexual abuse as well as supported others in their quest for healing, and can help you navigate that.
If you are navigating incompatibilities in any area - love language mismatches, insecure attachment, or constant arguments - I can help you find common ground and learn heart-centered practices that you can implement over time.
My goal is to help you learn the tools you need to create a deeply healing and fulfilling conscious relationship on your own, without the need for long-term therapy. I help you learn the tools you need to see each other clearly, understand how to receive the love you're being offered, rather than pressure each other to change, and access the deepest intimacy, healing, and fulfillment from your relationship.
I offer a welcoming, non-judgmental space for whatever relationship paths you are exploring—from monogamy to Ethical Non-Monogamy, relationship anarchy, conscious kink, and other consciously chosen forms of relating.
Book a free intro call so we can see if we're a good fit for each other:
Life Coaching and Healing for Individuals
Awaken to Authentic Love, Dissolve Fears, and Be Connected to your Passions
Love begins within.
In individual Coaching programs, we uncover the fears, expectations, and unconscious visions of “how love and life should be” that block your openness - whether they’re idealized fantasies or defenses shaped by past hurt.
The skills and abilities you'll master working with me will apply to all areas of your life. Whether you're seeking purpose, deeper emotional healing, a more stable and fulfilling love life, to develop spiritually, or to find more meaning. Often, the things that block us in one area of life are the same for others.
Our work together focuses on love!
You’ll learn to stop using inner punishment—guilt, harsh self-criticism, or passive aggression—to force change. Instead, we build change through positive reinforcement, skillful practice, and nervous-system safety. This approach doesn’t just heal your capacity to live and love with freedom and authenticity; it also aligns your work and service with your deeper purpose, so relationships feel joyful and true.
New FREE Book Available!
The Conscious Relationship Manifesto
What Aaran's Client's Have To Say:
"Aaran’s simple authenticity, gentle guidance, and acceptance have been incredibly inspiring and helpful to me. Aaran empowers you from within. His enthusiasm and encouragement are contagious! In working with him, I have moved from a feeling of being stuck to being free – and even more than that, to feeling joyful in just being alive!"
- Laura Redfern, Certified Financial Planner
"Through practicing Aaran’s guided meditation I was able to find the inspiration to complete a song I had been attempting to write. I was able to get in touch with a Universal Truth and create a song that has moved others. There was no labor involved. The song was simply delivered. Thank you Aaran."
- Lily Ralfs, Songwriter
"Aaran has dedicated his life to uplift humanity through the remembrance of returning one’s attention to the root of their being. His work addresses liberation from suffering, intentional living, and purification of body, mind, and spirit."
- Jean-Pierre Verdijo, Visual Artist
"I really appreciate Aaran’s graciousness and insights. He has taken me from being a skeptic to being a believer and has brought joy and inner knowing into my life. I have experienced deep healing by feeling a greater closeness to the ONE and by understanding my unconscious motivations. "
- Jonathan Houghton. Musician, Engineer, Philanthropist
"Aaran’s qualities of gentleness, understanding, and insight have helped me bring more awareness, patience, understanding and gratitude into my life. My relationship with myself has vastly improved and my relationships with others have become more engaging."
- Erik Sterns. Rei-Ki Master, Software Engineer
"Thanks to Aaran’s wisdom, insight and wide knowledge I’ve discovered how to bring my learning into my body in a way that creates real transformation. Before working with Aaran I felt stuck, and now I feel empowered to move forward again with a sense of hope."
- Helen Jordan, Meditation Teacher, Artist
A Bit About Me
I love this quote from Abraham Hicks:
“I want everyone to feel SO good that they never feel like picking up guns and killing each other”
I really want to lift up the human species from being 'the worst thing that has ever happened to this planet' (that’s a quote from my daughter). If you want to see a world full of happy people, you have to learn how to have healthy connections, which bring the greatest sense of meaning to our lives; alongside knowing our soul's purpose.
Therapuetic Coaching - How I Work
People often ask: “What’s the difference between therapy and coaching?” The simplest way to say it is:
Therapy is primarily about healing and treatment. Coaching is primarily about growth, skills, and forward movement.
In practice, the two can overlap. I begin with a coaching foundation—building communication skills, clear agreements, and a workable plan—because my goal is to empower you to create a life you’re genuinely in love with.
When something deeper is blocking progress, we can also bring in therapeutic-style practices as needed, including regression therapy, somatic movement practices, and guided meditations, to support healing, integration, and forward momentum.
My coaching is empowerment-first. It’s for individuals and couples who want tools, structure, and clear practices—so you can create lasting change in daily life, strengthen your ability to handle everyday stress, and move toward deeper purpose, meaning, and fulfillment.
Here’s what that looks like:
For individuals
- Life coaching + inner alignment: purpose, fulfillment, integrity, and the practical steps that turn insight into lived reality.
- Skill-building for real life: conscious communication, emotional regulation tools, and day-to-day coping skills that make change sustainable.
- Compatibility clarity (multiple levels): understanding your relational needs, your patterns, and what’s workable vs. a true mismatch—so you date and choose partners with clarity.
For couples
- Skill-building for relationship repair: conscious communication, conflict repair, and learning how to make agreements you can actually keep.
- Compatibility clarity (multiple levels): identifying where you naturally align, where friction is predictable, and how to work with differences in a grounded way.
- Empowered relationship design: boundaries, roles, rituals, expectations, conscious touch, and “how we do us” agreements—rather than hoping love will magically organize everything.
My favorite metaphor is: coaching teaches you to garden instead of handing you free carrots. You don’t just feel better in-session—you leave with tools you can use on Tuesday night when the same old pattern shows up.
Video Courses & Books
The Compatibility Blueprint
The five principles of compatibility help you clarifiy values, communication, lifestyle, intimacy, and growth—so you can date wisely, talk openly, and build the kind of love that lasts.
The Path to Perfect Intimacy: 6 Timeless Lessons on Love
This Course is designed to help you break free from unhealthy relationship patterns, heal emotional wounds, and build authentic, fulfilling connections through deep self-reflection, practical tools, and timeless wisdom.
Reclaiming the Lost Pieces of Yourself: Theory and Practice
This course contains an introduction and three transformative guided visualizations designed to help you reclaim lost parts of yourself: Body awareness, receptivity, and a profound regression practice.
Conscious Communication
Build Trust, Intimacy, and Clarity in Every Relationship. Learn practical communication skills that transform conflict into connection and help you create emotionally safe, thriving relationships.
Emotional Intelligence
Practical Emotional Tools that Return you to Calm, Clarity, and Connection. A step-by-step course with guided visualizations and daily practices that help you understand emotions, reset your nervous system, and respond from steadiness instead of reactivity.
21-Day Challenges
21 Days of Healing for the Avoidantly Attached
A 21-day program to help you feel safe expressing needs, emotions, and vulnerability in relationships. Through guided reflections, body-based awareness, and trust-building exercises, you’ll learn how to balance independence with connection.
21 Days of Healing for the Anxiously Attached
A 21-day journey to help you soothe overthinking, reduce emotional dependence, and feel more secure in love. ou’ll learn to recognize anxious patterns, release fear of abandonment, and build self-trust.
21 Days to Understand Men: A Journey for Women
A 21-day challenge for women to understand the inner world of men—their emotions, needs, and ways of loving. Beyond understanding men, this course also serves as a journey of integrating the masculine within yourself.
21 Days to Understand Women: A Journey for Men
A 21-day challenge to help men understand how women communicate, love, and move through emotions with depth and flow. Beyond understanding women, this course also serves as a journey of integrating the feminine within yourself.
21 Days of Heart–Root
Integration
This 21-day challenge teaches you to harmonize emotional intimacy and sexual energy through meditations and rituals. Whether single or partnered, you’ll explore how desire becomes more profound when rooted in love and spiritual awareness.
21 Days of
Body Confidence
This self-guided 21-day challenge helps you move beyond comparison and shame by honoring your body as sacred. Each day blends mirror work, affirmations, and mindfulness practices to help you feel beautiful, worthy, and free in your own skin.
Alchemy
Join The Relationship Revolution
The Alchemy App
The Compatibility Blueprint
CONTACT ME
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Email me at: aaran@aaransolh.com
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